008 | Receiving Feedback
Show Notes
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The Short and Snarky Guide to Coxing and Rowing by the Short and Snarky Coxswains*
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Timestamps:
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00:23 Intro
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01:36 We have individual ways of both giving and receiving feedback
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02:34 The importance of being able to receive feedback even if it feels very uncomfortable
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03:13 Ways to handle receiving feedback and figuring out if it’s personal or not
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05:41 Coxing has subjective aspects and that can lead to vague feedback
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06:38 Need to be aware of the circumstances under which you’re receiving feedback
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07:10 Personality styles have a big impact - listen to Episode 003
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08:16 Examples from each of us of how our personality types affects how we received and deal with feedback and the value in having some planned responses
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15:55 Rowers sometimes give feedback when they’re in an anaerobic state - it’s still important to receive it
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19:49 Don’t forget - feedback can be positive, too
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21:21 If you blame something - or someone - else, you could miss the chance to improve
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23:07 Example: dealing with criticism when swerving to avoid debris
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27:29 Examples: feedback from officials at regattas
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30:15 Getting contradictory requests from rowers
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37:13 Importance of soliciting feedback - verbal and written
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43:42 Verbal and non-verbal feedback
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48:37 Physical feedback from the boats we sit in
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49:48 Breana’s example of receiving feedback from a crew - how hard, but useful, it was
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53:54 If you want to improve, you must be open to feedback
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54:38 More about receiving - and responding to - feedback at regattas
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1:00:07 Receiving - and soliciting - feedback from coaches
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1:02:50 If someone’s offering feedback, it’s a sign of hope
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1:04:00 Shout out
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1:05:07 Quick pick - coxswains complimenting each other (listen to us compliment one another)
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1:08:53 Closing